Conflicting Relationships

These are relationships of implicitly looming conflict. The degree of psychological compatibility of these relations is the lowest. However, it is not obvious immediately. Conflicter rather attracts, what repels. Your weak character traits seem to be attractive for him.

Contact and good rapport between partners seem possible initially. But something always goes wrong along the way. Pondering why these attempts to find a contact do not work out, come to the conclusion that the cause of misunderstanding is not so large, easily removable. You need only make a little more effort - and he will understand me.

However, these attempts are useless, and provoke exhausting debates. Moreover, partners often verbally beat on the most sore spot of each other in these quarrels. They always want to prove something, refine, finish - but he/she, unfortunately, does not want you to understand. In time it raises internal irritation or nervousness.

The worst thing that the partners in conflicting relationships do not have mutual assistance in practice. They do not defend each other against attack from outside. It is not verbal defense, but the absence of ability to do part work for partner. The part that requires partner's week functions. Lack of security especially perceived in a hostile environment. You feel relief after leaving such partner.