Contrary Relationships

Thease are relationship of unstable psychological distance. It's very difficult to establish proper psychological distance. That can be done only when the partners communicate together. Appearance of the third person can destroy established contact. Competition starts, sometimes it can lead to hot debates. Nobody wants to drop the credibility in the eyes of listeners.

The partner's manner to behave in society, his cordiality, warmth seems impressive at first. It facilitates the setting up more close contacts. When communicating in a group psychological climate suddenly begins to change. Introvert becomes more and more distant, the relationship loses previous warm and becomes formal. Partners begin to regret that were so trustful.

The extrovert thinks that introvert partner acts against him. It seems surprising for him, since the mutual understading was very good. Introvert suppresses the activity of an extrovert. Accusatory tone appeares in his voice, he begins to speak out sharply against the extrovert, to criticize him. Extrovert is trying to respond accordingly.

Extrovert is in a more vulnerable position here. He fears to become exposed, to make the wrong steps. On the other hand, he can not see that his partner is decent and good person. High level of culture allows to avoid mutual accusations.