Social Order Relationships

The first partner which can be concidered as Transmitter of the order, looks at the second partner, who can be concidered as the Receiver of the order, from top to down, as on more subordinate, underestimating his role. The second partner (Receiver) looks at first (Transmitter), on the contrary, with interest, overestimating his role.

Receiver can be delighted by the partner's behavior, demeanor, ability to do things that Receiver considers as complex. Secondly, he likes creative style of Transmitter's thoughts. Receiver in the presence of the Transmitter unwittingly begins to curry favor with him, please him, for some unknown reasons. Receiver starts with little things and then do more and more until he understands the nonsense of such behaviour, and begins to restrain youself. It looks like he tries to justify yourself.

However, there are some moments in Transmitter's behaviour that looks irritating for Receiver. Those features that the Transmitter displays to look good in society, to attract attention. Receiver tries to help partner in improving conditions that prevent Transmitter to behave in more natural manner. At the same time, it is always unclear for the Receiver what exactly should be done. Order issued by the Transmitter is not individual, it is social. Behind it there are problems of people which take part in communication with this pair.

These relationships look very smooth and conflict-free from the side. Transmitter always initiates activity. Receiver feels good attitudes to yourself from the Transmitter's side. The Transmitter is trying to encourage partner in any possible way, by taking care of him, supporting him. The response from the Receiver side is usually only at first. Attempts to come to an understanding do not have any success. Feedback is not getting better. Transmitter does not hear the Receiver. Consequently, the Receiver moves away from him and tries to keep the distance.

Thus, these relations can be called a relationship of patronage in the absence of feedback. Over time, relations can grow into almost total disregard. Receiver ignores the Transmitter. Coming to such situation means that the order is fully realized as a social one.